A move from an urban setting to a small town can be daunting. Newcomers to many small towns learn that residents can be a close-knit group. Families may be large with extended branches into what may seem like half the homes in town. Long time residents may have old connections with their doctor, dentist, child’s teachers, and other professionals that newcomers lack. It’s common to feel like an outsider but there are ways to network and become part of the local circle.

The first step is to be friendly

First, be friendly. Upon arrival in town, get started. The first step is to find a home. Whether that home is a rental unit or a house purchased through a realtor, it’s the beginning of a network.

The realtor or landlord can point new residents in the right direction to connect utilities, find furniture, and even hire contractors if needed. Inquire about any services necessary whether it's someone to clean on Tuesdays or a teenager to cut the lawn. Chances are, that first contact can help make connections.

Meet the neighbors. Don’t be bashful. Introduce yourself to the neighbors and explain why you chose their community to call home. Lifelong residents will feel flattered that you selected their town as a new home. Ask for advice about where to shop for groceries or who to call when you need a plumber.

Call the local Welcome Wagon or join the Newcomers Club.