Searching for a sitter for your elderly parent? Consideration must be given to compatibility of personalities, lifestyle, level of need and willingness to do what is necessary. Finding the right match may help your elderly parent have a better quality of life, by allowing him/her to remain home.
Not just any sitter will do. Choosing a sitter or companion for a senior parent, calls for the same level of care used when selecting one for your child. Ideally, the senior will provide input into the selection of their companion. In some instances, it isn’t possible and other times you may find they will not speak up, even if things aren’t going well once the sitter is hired. That leaves the burden on your shoulders to be in tune to how the sitter/senior relationship is proceeding and to take action when necessary.
Finding A Sitter
Generally, there are two options when the search for a sitter begins:
Hiring on an individual basis.
Using a referral agency.
The distinct advantage of using a referral agency is they normally have a long list of sitters looking for work. If one doesn’t work out, or needs time off, they normally have a replacement immediately available. If you are having trouble locating a sitter referral agency or an individual, try contacting the following in your area:
Home Health Agencies
Hospital
Chamber of Commerce (inquire as to sitter referral agencies in the area)
Check the classified ads or run your own advertisement
Employment office
Ask friends and neighbors
While they may not be listed in your telephone book, many times an agency will serve a large area and can be found online.