For most young girls, babysitting will be their first job. To outsiders,
watching younger relatives or neighborhood children may appear like an easy way
to earn extra cash after school and on the weekends. However, many who begin
babysitting quickly realize that caring for children is not an easy task. When
working with well-behaved or cooperative children, babysitting can be
enjoyable. Yet, when parents are overly demanding, and children are monsters –
its more than some babysitters can handle. Here are few tips to make the most
out of babysitting.
Arrive Early
Like any job, arriving late leaves a bad impression. Parents might be in a
hurry and good babysitters should make sure that parents leave contact
information. Inquire as to whether the child is allergic to any foods or
liquids. Most parents leave detailed instructions and give babysitters a quick
tour of the house. If you are late, they are likely unable to do this, thus
intensifying their own worries of leaving their children with a sitter.
Stick with the Routine
In the instructions, parents generally outline the rules of the house and
any restrictions. For example, children may not be allowed to eat sweets after
a certain hour, or not allowed to watch television if their homework is not
complete. Do not bend on these rules. Following the parent's instructions –
regardless of fairness – is professional and shows respect.
Take Control
Do not allow the children too much control. Often times, children like to
take advantage of sitters. If the children begin to act unruly, babysitters
have to exercise their control. In a calm, yet authoritative manner, ask the
children to lower their voices, stop playing, or stop running. It may be wise
to inquire about the parent's method of discipline. This might include
time-outs or sending them to their room.
Respect Children and Home
Do not act mean toward the children. Some people like babysitting because it
is easy money. However, interaction with the children is essential. Sitting
them in front of the television, while you talk on the phone is not good
babysitting. Moreover, respect your employer's home. Do not invite friends
over, unless you are given permission.