Lucid dreaming is the skill of realizing when one is dreaming - from that simple premise comes the ability to consciously control one's dreams, remembering each one and turning every night into a positive, uplifting experience. This article will show you the techniques you need to become a lucid dreamer.
People are fascinated by
the power of the mind. Among the great mysteries that have
accompanied humanity through its journey is the power of dreaming –
the meaning of dreams and how they are conceived in the brain. Few
people, however, realize that it is possible to control one's dreams:
to, as the term goes, "lucid dream." One may dream of whatever one
wishes and act in the dream as though conscious. This may seem
incredible, but few are those who have not suddenly realized, one
night, “Hey! I'm in a dream!” Through easy techniques, you can
train yourself to have “Ah-ha!” moments like that every night.
With practice, you can exercise great influence over your dreams,
eliminating nightmares and, if you so desire, using your resting
hours to ready yourself for the challenges of your waking life. In this article, I will show you the seven steps to lucid dreaming for the rest of your life.
The First Step: A Dream
Journal
Most of us are not born
with very good recall of our dreams. We may remember a few details
immediately on waking, which drift away from us over the course of
the first few minutes of morning. Every once in a while, a
particularly pleasant, or horrible, dream will leave enough of an
impression to describe it several hours later. But how can we lucid
dream if we cannot even remember our dreams?
As with anything,
increasing the amount of attention you give your dreams allows you to
focus on and recall them better. A time-tested method for doing this
is by writing them down. Keep a composition book by your bedside and
write down every detail you remember of your dreams as soon as you
wake up. Writing something down allows one to recall it an average of
30% better after several hours. Within a week or two of getting into
this habit, you will find your memories of dreams are much richer
than before.
The Second Step: Positive
Affirmation
Another important
concept for building strong dream recall is positive affirmation.
Positive affirmation is used in psychotherapy and hypnosis to help
the mind adopt a new idea, and is simply a statement of what one
wants to occur that is repeated over and over. As those who have read
some of my other articles may already know, one of the stages the
mind passes through on the way to sleep is very similar to hypnosis,
a state where your subconscious mind is very receptive to your
conscious wishes.
Your subconscious
mind is a repository of information about everything you have
ever experienced, though so disorganized by conscious standards that
most of the information is very difficult to access. During sleep,
the subconscious sorts through the day's experiences and adds new
information to its memory database. While this goes on, you
experience dreams. Since the subconscious is the source of dreams,
getting it on your side can only be helpful.
In this case, positive
affirmation should be used for two purposes - to improve recall while
one is developing dream memory, and to improve sleeping
consciousness, the knowledge that one is asleep, while developing
dream lucidity. Repeating a simple phrase like "In the
morning, I will remember every detail of my dreams" is
sufficient to the first purpose. Repeat it ten to twenty times,
either in your mind or aloud, while you are lying in bed. If you have
to get up to do anything else, repeat the process when you lie down
again. The goal is to make your affirmation the last thing you think
of consciously before you are asleep.
The Third Step:
Developing Dream Lucidity
There will come a point
where you can remember at least some details from dreams every
morning, and this is good. Since several dreams can occur in a very
short time during sleep, and we dream every time we sleep, there is
no shortage of them. When you reach this point, it is time to focus
on developing your sleeping consciousness.
The most common method
for developing dream lucidity is the reality check. A reality
check is simply a habit you take up in real life that cannot be
duplicated reliably in a dream. Partial lucidity, represented by the
strong dream recall that you have already developed, causes this
habit to be carried out and identifies when you are dreaming. To make
this concept clear, an example should be provided.
In dreams, it is
generally considered impossible to read, identify time on a clock, or
do any of a number of activities influenced by the left hemisphere of
the brain, which is very mathematical and less active in sleep than
waking. Therefore, by getting into the habit of checking your watch -
then closing your eyes, and telling yourself, "If I am dreaming,
the time will be incorrect" before looking a second time - you
develop a reality check. During a dream, partial lucidity will cause
you to carry out your reality check. When a reality check proves that
you are in a dream, the shock often jolts you into more complete
lucidity.
A reality check should
be performed before going to sleep and after waking up, at the very
least. To strengthen the habit, perform the reality check throughout
the day. Remember, when performing a reality check, you must stop to
remind yourself consciously of the importance of this action.
Otherwise, it will not disrupt the dream state when you do it while
asleep. A partial list of possible reality checks follows.
The Fourth Step: Reality
Checks
Any action which depends
strongly on mathematical or spatial skill, or minute details, can
potentially serve as a good reality check. The following list is
composed of those that I have used successfully in the past. These
are effective because of their strong differences from regular
reality.
Write a favorite
proverb, joke, or other phrase on a standard-sized note card. Keep
the note card in your pocket. Throughout the day, refer to the note
card at random intervals. This is a strong reality check because,
unlike checking your watch, this has no other purpose than to
establish whether or not you are dreaming.
Look down at your shoes.
Close your eyes, think of another pair of shoes that you own, and
look again. In a dream, you are about as likely as not to find
yourself wearing the other shoes. A standard means of changing what
is happening, once you are in a dream and lucid, is to look away from
the scene and look back. Anything your attention is not focused on is
subject to change.
Try to fly. In the
waking world, it is, of course, impossible - and I don't mean that
you should flap your arms on the street corner to give yourself a
reality check. In a dream, you will be able to fly, sci-fi spaceman
style, by looking up, stretching your arms skyward, and blasting off.
You may imagine that you have jets on your shoes or back. In polite
company, this can be disguised as a stretch - it will still work if
you are, in fact, dreaming.
The Fifth Step: Other
Methods of Lucid Dreaming
Other methods of
inducing lucidity often take ingenuity above and beyond the reality
check method. A brief overview of more detailed methods follows.
LaBerge's
Mnemonic Induction Technique: A big
name for a big leap forward in the science of lucid dreams, a method
developed by Dr. Stephen LaBerge of Stanford, California in 1980.
In the LaBerge method,
one wakes up fully from a remembered dream, distracts the mind with
another pleasant, low-impact activity such as very light reading, a
walk, dusting, or what have you. On waking fully, the practitioner
goes back to bed.
Lying in bed, the
practitioner uses or old friend positive
affirmation to remember that he or she was just dreaming, and when a
similar dream happens in the future he or she will remember it and
realize that it is a dream. In the beginning, it is easier to induce
lucid dreaming through a series of short naps, as so, than during a
regular sleep period.
Other methods based on
LaBerge: Recently, Dr. LaBerge has
invented devices to remind the sleeper he or she is dreaming while
awake. This is done using a helmet or controlled environment where
light pulses of certain length and intensity will bombard the sleeper
at intervals. The sleeper is conditioned to react to these pulses by
realizing they are asleep. If you have a clock that can be set to
play sounds below the threshold that normally wakes you, but still
audible to the naked ear, you can try to develop a routine for
yourself based on the same principle.
Waking Induction of
Lucid Dreaming: Some individuals with experience in meditation or
hypnosis have claimed the ability to maintain consciousness while
their body is falling asleep. Meditation brings on a state much
closer to sleep than normal waking consciousness, yet sensation is
not interrupted. By recognizing hypnogagia,
the partially-awake state where thought slows and muscles relax
deeply just before sleep, it is possible to induce lucid dreaming
while still awake, cautioning yourself at the last moment that "I
am about to dream."
It is also possible to
use positive affirmation to awaken yourself after every dream period,
which works wonders from the point of view of cataloging your dreams
and increases the chances of lucid dreaming due to interruption of
your sleep pattern. However, I do not recommend it, as, on the whole,
you will get less sleep.
The Sixth Step:
Maintaining Lucidity
By this point, you
probably have a good grasp of what lucid dreaming is, unusually
strong dream recall, and more than a little experience in dreams of
varying lucidity. However, a brief word about maintaining lucidity
once you've reached it. With nightly practice, your lucidity will
grow sharper and sharper. However, there are a few techniques for
ensuring you do not slip back into sleep unconsciousness after
initially realizing you are in a dream.
Focusing: Focusing
on objects that would have intricate detail and texture in reality is
one way to push yourself into the dream and keep from fading out of
consciousness. Manipulate your environment and pay attention to a
small aspect of your dream rather than the big picture. After a short
time, you can return to dreaming.
Turning: To
restate, turning sharply in one's dreams often forces a change of
scenery, and this can re-engage your attention if you are slipping in
and out of focus or, conversely, if your dream has led to a situation
that you simply don't want to be in. Notably, in a lucid dream, it is
even easier to jolt yourself awake than under normal circumstances.
The Goal: Lucid Dreaming
and How to Use It
After a few months of
practice, any healthy person can lucid dream on a regular basis.
Because lucid dreaming pushes the boundaries of knowledge in
neurology and psychology, it would be folly to try and recommend the
"best" way to make use of your lucid dreams. It is possible
to fly like a bird, converse with yourself, or significant characters
in your mind, to get answers to questions about your behavior or
motivations. Fully lucid dreams are good for rehearsing skills that
you have in the waking world, or trying out different solutions to
problems. Because time does not pass in the mind in the same way it
passes in the physical, waking world, it is possible to extend these
sessions far beyond what is normal during our conscious hours. There
are even claims about lucid dreamers who have experienced decades in
the course of a single night!
However you use it,
there are two things to remember about this advanced stage of lucid
dreaming. First, once regular lucid dreams have set in, your dreams
are likely to become lucid more often with time, not less. Second,
since all the events occur completely in your mind, there is no
possible danger to you. Enjoy your newfound freedom, and happy
dreaming!