This one should be obvious. Most women enjoy couples dancing and you don’t need to be a couple to take lessons. Sure you may end up dancing with your grandma but that could prove endearing to the right girl. If you have two left feet or don’t enjoy dancing, try to remember that dancing gets you close to a woman in the most primal way and that for the duration of the dance, she’s a captive audience.
Strategy: This one is easy. Sign-up. Show up. Practice. Don’t paw or grope. Once you’ve danced with the same woman and feel comfortable talking (read listening) to her, you may suggest going dancing to practice or to watch professional dancers for tips. Tango would be an excellent choice.
# 4: Self-help seminars
Most women love seminars, especially self-help or spiritual. If you’re not really into it, don’t go. If you think you can stand a couple hours of touchy-feeling subject matter, hop to it. You might actually learn something.
Strategy: Again an easy one. Look for seminars that include group or pair workshops. Choose a subject you enjoy or think you should know more about so you won’t get bored. You need to pay attention so you’ll be able to discuss the topic.
# 5: Volunteer
Women are natural caregivers and they appreciate a man who can give back to the community.
Strategy: Choose an activity you enjoy. Here are some examples:
Coaching a local sports team
After-school programs
School outings or fundraisers
Soup kitchens
Hospitals
Senior homes or activities
Local festivals or events
Alternately, you could offer to teach free workshops that help or empower women. Just don’t restrict access to women or it’ll look fishy.