"I'm home all day and I need to talk about the bank account. He's stressed and gets angry with me for bringing it up"

I completely understand. Stay at home mothers are usually stuck looking at the four walls with little to no adult contact all day. We feed off of the phone call from our man that he's on his way home. We know he's going to be here in less than 20 minutes and cannot wait to jump on him. Same situation as the above paragraph. Stop, think, and react accordingly. He's stressed out. When you are tired, do you want to hear about something bad happening if it can wait until an hour later? Of course not. Men do not want us to verbally vomit the entire day's events to them as soon as they walk in. It makes them want to turn around and run back to work. Give them 30 minutes at least to come in and sit back in their favorite chair. Give him the remote and just get over it. If the bank account is overdrawn, is telling him right now going to put the money back in there? No. Chill out. Take the initiative and call some bill collectors and try to arrange an agreement for a later payment. Most of them will do this for you. They still want the money, so if getting it means waiting a few extra days, chances are, they will make an allowance as long as it isn't an ongoing monthly practice. Do your part to show your man that you can handle things without him having to hold your hand through it.

"I bought some sexy lingerie and my fiancee didn't respond to it as I thought he would. Is he no longer attracted to me?"

Don't worry. In this category, men are pretty simple. Less is more, meaning, you do not have to go out and spend a fortune on lace and silk to turn him on. I've asked so many men about this because I was confused for years about what men really wanted from women as far as bedroom attire. Message forums, friends of mine, friends of my husband's, and just guys in general have all answered the same. They love a tee shirt and panties. There is something so sexy about the simplicity of a tee shirt or one of their button up shirts and a nice pair of panties (or no panties). It drives a man wild. Next time you have the inclination to go out to an expensive lingerie store, go ahead, but just head right over to the panties and buy all the sexy pairs you can find and replace the teddy with another pair of sexy undies and a lacy push-up bra for those cute tanks you like to wear out to dinner.