A woman wants to be desired. It not only makes us feel sexy and beautiful (and possibly in the mood), but it is nice knowing the man we spend our life with is actually attracted to us even after all of this time.
Not that women have a low self-worth; but body changes that come with birthing children and age tend to weigh a little heavier on our minds than on a man’s mind. Women can allow these superficialities to force us to wear long pajamas to bed, turn off the light when being intimate and cover up their swimming suits with a long shirt.
So, instead of making her more aware of these changes, remind her that you find her more attractive now than when you first met. She has been your soulmate, gave you the gift of fatherhood and has been there every step of the way for you – and that is sexy in its own right.
Take that to the next level and kiss her neck when she is making dinner, whisper how gorgeous she is without a stitch of make up and her hair pulled back (just like when she was a teenager), feel her skin and remark how soft it is to the touch. These small gestures build up inside a woman’s mind and heart, and oftentimes, loins. She will believe you, and feel better about being in her own skin.
One more thing - when being intimate, explore her body like you did when you both were younger. Audibly remark how the curve of her hips makes you crazy, how her legs are both strong and sexy, how her neck calls out to you – you get the picture. Your talking fills her head up with images and takes her to a place where she is sexy, desired and safe. It proves for a great time in the sack too!