In society there is a notion that in order to not be called a racist you have to either be colorblind to race or culture, or you have to be friends with one person that is different from yourself, and you reach some sort of “safe zone.” To truly understand the strengths of other cultures or racial experiences, it takes more than just skimming the surface. Just as you would pursue a passion or hobby, so too can you begin to open your mind to others’ experiences.
The first step to understanding another person’s experience is to start a dialogue. By initiating a conversation where you ask a few questions and thoroughly listen, you’ll begin to understand how the person grew up, what different values and events transpired for this person and how that has shaped the person as a human being. There can be differences in beliefs, religion, family background and cultural celebrations, but as you get to know people of different cultures, you’ll begin to see aspects of how these unique traits can enhance your experience on this earth. You’ll also learn that many people have similarities to your own experience, given that we all are part of the larger race of humans.
As you find yourself immersed in others’ experiences, you may want learn more on your own. By doing research online about a specific country’s history or by reading books by authors of the culture or race you are exploring, you can gain a further understanding of a culture. You may also find events in your area celebrating different cultural holidays or points of importance for a race or culture. Go to these events and check out what you’ve been missing. Another way to further understand cultures is to explore the music, dance and art that is produced by people of other cultures and races. It can give you a first hand glimpse into the soul of a people and enrich your own life at the same time.
As you begin to explore and thoroughly get to know others from a different race or culture, you could find yourself entering into deep relationships, whether it be based in love or friendship. As you spend a lot of time with people of other cultures, some people from your own race may feel the need to comment, whether it be family or friends or just society in general.