If you’ve been selected as the all-important maid or matron of honor, you’re probably very dear to the bride’s heart. You’re someone she trusts to do a very significant job, so you need to know exactly what that job entails. The maid of honor is responsible for:
Attending all the pre-wedding parties (tough job, but someone’s gotta do it).
Throwing a party for the bride and groom – a shower, perhaps. Or a bachelorette party, if desired.
Helping to address all the invitations … and licking the envelopes too.
Assisting the bride with her going-away luggage, making sure she’s packed everything.
Keeping track of bridesmaids’ appointments and obligations, such as dress fittings, and remind them of each one.
Arranging for the flower petals that the flower girl sprinkles down the aisle before the ceremony.
Arriving early (at least two hours) at the church or bride’s home to help everyone get ready.
Reminding the best man which lady will be wearing which corsage.
Holding the bride’s bouquet during parts of the wedding such as the exchange of rings.
Assisting the bride with her train, and discretely fixing any twists or folds in the fabric.
Carrying the groom’s ring until the designated time in the ceremony.
Witnessing and signing the marriage certificate.
Standing in the post-ceremony receiving line; traditionally, the Maid of Honor’s place is to the left of the groom, with the bridesmaids on her left.
Taking care of the bride’s dress after she’s changed out of it; taking it to have it cleaned or professionally stored.
Your job as maid of honor is serious. You’re there to make sure the bride’s day goes as smoothly and happily as it possibly can. Even if the stress of the day and of your responsibilities is getting to you, don’t let it show; perform your required tasks with a smile and don’t complain. This is someone else’s day, so do whatever you can to make it great and memorable. She has trusted you with the best day of her life so far, and that’s a privilege.