At this point, the choices are the same as they are for humans. You can
either choose to bury your pet or cremate him. One friend of mine, who had her
friend put down at home, reports that the experience seemed to be the most
humane to her. The woman, who came to her house for the final day, carried her
cat off in a warm blanket and took the responsibility of having her cremated.
She returned her a few days later in a lovely urn. Another friend chose to bury
her cat in a garden. She held a short funeral, where friends could all say
something about Carmen.
It's Natural to Grieve
No matter how the end of their lives takes place, it's always sad. The pets
you have lived with become your best friends and are part of your family. The
emotions you feel for them are as true as you would feel for any human. Their
loss is something you have to suffer, and that is perfectly normal. As with any
separation from anyone you love, it is a difficult time, and only time can ease
that pain. It's nothing to be ashamed of or to deny. Take the time you need to
heal your heart. It's never easy, but talk about it with your friends and
family. Most people, especially if they've had pets, know what you are going
through, and I think you'll find sympathy and compassion if you're willing to
share your experience with them.