Finally, if your marriage is suffering because of family conflict then you should step back and take a look at the situation. Sometimes you just have to “agree to disagree” in certain instances. Both people need to tell their parents and their family to “back off” if it is causing tension in your personal relationship. Whatever the conflict is, you should be able to resolve it as a couple without outside interference.

If your parents or your in-laws are causing stress in your marriage then it is time to politely tell them that you appreciate their input but you and your spouse make the final decision. Explain to them that you love them, but you are not always going to agree with them. Couples have enough to deal with in their relationship without worrying about more problems and conflicting opinions from outsiders. Keeping parents and family members at bay can help reduce stressful circumstances and assist with “keeping the peace” in your marriage.