The lesson that Bruce learned from such experiences: “Kids are a lot tougher than adults, and they react to our reactions more than they react to the incidents that happen to them.” This experienced father, however, is quick to add that it is important to “care about your children.” It is also important, however, Bruce points out, not to over-react when a child trips or hurts himself in some way, “because they will react to your actions.”
Bruce uses his experience every day when caring for his three active young boys. “Now that I am a single Dad taking care of my boys all of the time, I apply this reaction philosophy,” notes Bruce. Recently, for example, four-year-old Dylan ran across the room, fell, and hit his head against the wall. Bruce made sure that his son was all right, and the little boy immediately “started running again.”
The key message that Bruce hopes to pass along to other parents: “Love your children, care for them when they are really hurt, and think before you react.”