Caregivers often find that they mourn the loss of the person before they needed full-time care. A spouse or parent that suffers from Alzheimer’s is not the same loving person that the caregiver remembers. Someone terminally ill or suffering a chronic condition is also not the same. Feeling strong emotions for the loss are also quite normal.

Caregivers should never feel ashamed of their emotions. It is far better to feel than to be cold and without feelings.

If you find yourself in the role of a caregiver, be knoweledgeable. Be patient and allow time for yourself. The right combination of actions can make the experience of providing care the ultimate for everyone involved.