Before Buddy gets the message that he is low dog in the pack, he may display dominant behavior toward Baby. Watch for aggressive behavior, such as laid back ears, growling, crouching and snapping. If, previous to Baby’s arrival in the pack, you and Buddy were closely bonded, he may withdraw or become depressed and stop eating. This is a sign that he is having negative feelings about the new pack member. Watch him closely.
Introducing your Dog to Baby
Allow Buddy to enter Baby’s room before he comes home from the hospital. Let Buddy explore, sniff the furniture, crib and blankets. If you plan on using baby powder, apply a small amount to your hand and let Buddy become familiar with the scent. If possible, take a piece of Baby’s clothing to the hospital, let him wear it or lie on it for several hours, then bring it home to familiarize buddy with Baby’s scent. Once Baby comes home, allow Buddy in Baby’s room only when you are tending to Baby.
Never pull Baby away from Buddy. Allow him to sniff Baby. If you snatch Baby away every time Buddy approaches, Buddy will begin to consider Baby a threat. This is something you don’t want to do because it will make Buddy more aggressive toward Baby.
Your Dog Needs Attention
Spend as much time as possible with Buddy. Remember, he was once the center of attention. Now, Baby has taken over that role. Take Buddy for regular walks. If you had a time schedule before Baby’s arrival, try to stick with it. Play a game of ball, fetch, or any games that you played with Buddy in the past. Give Buddy the same amount of attention now, as you did before Baby arrived, if at all possible. Be sure to spend this time with Buddy one-on-one.
Buddy may never get used to Baby. Like humans, some dogs just don’t take to kids. If Buddy has never been around wee folk, it may take a long time for him to adjust. Give him time and supervise all interaction between the two. Never leave Baby alone with Buddy, even for a second. It could spell disaster.