No one understands what your sacrifices mean more than you. Allowing your grown, adult child to move home is a loving and giving gesture on your part. Too many parents feel it is their responsibility to take care of the adult child because things are not going well. When this happens, it turns a situation of helping the child out to one of enabling. It should remain very evident that your adult child is working toward something. If no progress toward independence is seen a reevaluation of the situation, and some very clear communication should get them back on track.