After spending some time surveying each other’s body with sight, it is time to introduce smell. Get as close as you can to the nape of your lover’s neck without touching and take a deep breath through your nose. Describe how they smell – musky, sweet, salty – and tell them why you like it. Does it remind you of your first sexual experience with your partner or the time you had that weekend getaway?
Position your nose right above your lover’s hair; savor it and again, describe what the smell means to you.
Now, follow the curves of your mate with your nose, trying hard not to introduce touch. Note the different smells of his/her body as you survey it with your nose a few times. Tell them which parts hold the favorite smells and why. Then switch places, allowing your mate to do the same exercise with you.
Touch
Once you can no longer stand it, it is time to introduce touch. Start with your nose – survey your lover’s body again as you did with smelling, but this time add the light pressure of your nose along those curves. This will tickle your nose while allowing you to smell the scents even stronger.
Then, take your hands and starting from the top of the head, work your way down, touching, tickling and massaging each body part. Tell them why you love the way it feels, and ask them to describe which of your touches is best for them. Hit your partner’s erogenous zones – the obvious regions and the less conspicuous areas that your mate enjoys.
Have your lover tell you where to touch, and how to touch. It may be a light tickle on the back, or a finger grazing on the inner thigh – wherever it may be, do exactly as they say. Have them tell you how it feels and what they are thinking about when you are doing it.
Your turn. Have your partner switch roles and you are now the guide.
Then, together, touch the places on each other’s bodies that you both like. Explore like it was the first time you were introduced to their physique.