While still touching, begin kissing. Start slow, kissing each other lips lightly, nibbling on the top or bottom lip, sucking slightly. Then open your lips so your partner can probe his/her tongue inside your mouth. Take turns.
While kissing, make a mental note of how your partner tastes – when you pause from kissing tell them what it was like for you.
While taking turns, begin running your tongue over your lover’s erogenous zones. How do they taste to you? How does it feel on your tongue? Explain it to your mate.
While tasting your lover, use different tongue techniques. First, just use the tip of your tongue to taste, and then introduce your entire tongue. Does it offer a different taste? How? Explain to your lover.
Sound
During this intimate moment, you have been using sound all along – speaking to your lover in different tones and moans of pleasure when being smelled, touched and tasted have escaped your mouth. One thing to consider when engaging in this exercise is the amount of environmental or artificial noise you want to introduce. If this is your first experience with focusing on the five senses, it is best that the only audible noises be your lover and you. As you experience this sort of intimacy more, you may be interested in playing music that entices, or noise making machines.
Pay particular attention to the different sounds your lover makes. They can easily tell you which of your actions are quite pleasurable. When you hear that moan or sound that escapes your lover’s lips when you are visiting a pleasure zone, do it more. If there is a hesitation or uncomfortable sound muttered from your partner, you may not want to pursue that action any longer.
When your lover makes sounds that utterly drive you crazy, let them know. Tell them which ones are your favorites, what they mean to you and how it makes you feel.
Talk to your mate when being intimate. Start with whispers, and become as loud or soft as you want to be. Tell them how beautiful they are, what you plan on doing to them, and how you would like them to reciprocate. They will, in turn, let you know if it makes them uncomfortable or heightens their pleasure by their sounds and body language.