These days, we’re talked into buying our babies much more than they actually need. The pressure to buy Baby the “right” toys and make him a pint-sized genius is intense. The truth is, stimulation and interaction is what makes babies smarter – not a fancy or high-tech toy. Babies are just as happy with a pot lid and a spoon, or a cheap set of brightly colored plastic keys. In fact, they’re happiest when they’re dancing or playing or talking to you, so interact as often as you can – it’s absolutely free! Instead of buying the “baby-oriented” classical music compilations (you know the ones), just buy a regular CD of classical music, which is about half the price or even less, and play it – the only major difference is packaging, and Baby isn’t going to care what’s on the CD case, anyway. You can buy used toys, but be sure to thoroughly sterilize them before giving them to your baby. Used stuffed animals aren’t recommended because they’re hard to sanitize.
Baby’s “big-ticket” items …
The crib. The stroller. The playpen. The car seat. These are all items that can be expensive. Are they necessary?
The crib: you can buy a used one, of course, but you’re safest buying a new crib. Consider it an investment and splurge a little.
The stroller: unnecessary. In fact, it may end up being more of a burden than anything else – trying to get it in and out of the trunk, lugging it around, maneuvering Baby through the tough Christmas shopping crowds come holiday season. Instead of a stroller, opt for a backpack-type baby carrier or swing. They’re cheaper and much more convenient – you have your hands free to do other things.
The playpen: unnecessary. It’s nice to have, but you can get by without it; use baby gates (tip: pet gates are exactly the same, but for some reason, generally much cheaper) or a crib.
The car seat: absolutely necessary! This is another area where it’s best not to buy used. The good news: you can actually get a free car seat, and it’s easier than you may think. Some car insurance companies offer a free car seat if you attend a safety seminar, so check with yours. Certain states’ highway patrols and auto clubs do the same thing. It’s definitely something worth doing a little research on!
If you find yourself having to pay a lot for a crib or car seat or other necessary item, put it on layaway as soon as possible (like when the second line on the pregnancy test appears) and pay on it in small increments. It’s much easier on the wallet that way.