As a parent you’d like your kids to only socialize with others who are honest, intelligent and who have good academic skills. You don’t want them to socialize with those who drink, do drugs or smoke. You want to protect your kids, yet allow them to be independent. What is a parent to do?
If you’ve brought your kids up to be honest and respect others, they will soon tire of friends who get them into trouble. Some kids have to learn the hard way. Try to let friendships run a natural course. The more you object, the longer the friendship will last. This is the time of rebellion. Ask your child why he’s chosen that particular friend and listen carefully to the answer. However, stay alert to the situation. You have to be able to recognize the difference between independent rebellion and danger. Your child has to learn to socialize with others from all walks of life. If the friendship turns threatening, dangerous or moves to activities that are illegal, then your first responsibility is to your child whether he likes it or not. Unacceptable friendships such as these have to be ended quickly to ensure your child remains safe.
Support
Support your child, love him and let him know you’re there for him in every situation. If you do, he will hone the ability to handle every type of social situation, have high self esteem, grades that show his highest potential and he’ll be responsible for his actions. He’ll be a child to be proud of and grow up to have superior social skills and lasting friendships and relationships.