In general, baby monitors are great. They give us peace of mind and let us know when our babies need us. However, most monitors are also very sensitive. The slightest cry often sounds several times louder than it really is. As a result, monitors can prevent us from giving our infants some time to try and calm themselves down. Remember, infants are very smart. If they know that you will visit at the first peep, they will not hesitate to peep. If it takes a bit more for you to visit, your child may well turn to one of the soothing methods that you taught them rather than continue to cry. The best advice that I can give is that you should split the difference. Keep the monitor on, but do not turn the volume more than half-way up. This way, every cry does not sound like the end of the world. Chances are that you know which cries are which anyway.
Variety is the Spice of Life
Finally, remember that all children are different. Some children will sleep through the night more quickly than others. In addition, sometimes there is a good reason that your child is waking up at night. One of the great things about having an infant is that you can get professional advice whenever you want it. If your child sleeps poorly, ask you pediatrician about it. Sometimes, there are formula or breast milk issues. My daughter could not tolerate the amount of iron in her original formula. Our pediatrician quickly diagnosed the problem and we switched formula. You should always remember, however, that you can help your child learn to sleep through the night. Once your infant learns the difference between night and day, they will be well on their way toward nighttime bliss.