Ways to find that special someone … or at least a good date!

• Advertise.  Think about it: what better way to find a person that fits your idea of a perfect match?  By placing a personal ad, either in a newspaper personals column or online, you can outline exactly what you’re looking for – and get responses from people who actually fit that description.  It’s exciting (and empowering!) to get responses and know that there are people wanting to get to know you better, and hoping you’ll choose them.
• Try online dating.  The ‘Net is full of online dating sites, all competing with one another to get their clients the best results possible.  So they’re going to do whatever they can to match you up with someone you’re super-compatible with.  You can create a profile for yourself, getting really specific, and find someone who shares your goals, values, and preferences.  Most sites charge a nominal fee, but it’s a small price to pay if you’re really aching for a relationship.
• Look outside your normal scope.  So maybe he isn’t the type you usually go for, but don’t overlook the guy you just met because he isn’t rich … or blond … or older than you.  Even if you don’t initially find a guy particularly attractive, you shouldn’t discount him right away; often once we get to know someone’s personality, they will start to become more attractive to us.  If you tend to have a “type,” you should think about giving other types a chance.  Try something new for a change!
• Volunteer.  There’s something about volunteering that makes you feel so good – and you’d feel even better about it if you found a great guy in the process.  Offer up your services at charity events, church, homeless shelters … anywhere that a helping hand is greatly appreciated.  You might just be paired up with a fellow do-gooder who happens to be cute and available.  You may not get paid for volunteering, but you might just get a payoff by finding an altruistic guy.  Score!
• Take lessons.  Enroll in some sort of class – ballroom dancing, cooking, photography, any kind of coed course.  It’s a win-win situation; you’ll be doing something that interests you, getting good at it, gaining marketable skills, and might even meet a special someone in the process.  And if you do meet someone in one of these classes, you’ll already have a common bond – makes for great dinner conversation, if nothing else!
• Join a gym or health club.  It’s the same principle as taking lessons: you’re doing something good for yourself (and as an added perk, you’ll look and feel wonderful, too) and at the same time, giving yourself the chance to meet new people.