Women love great sex - “great” being the key word. We like the way it feels to have our husband touching us, kissing us, whispering sexy words in our ears and trying new things to keep it interesting.
What we don’t like is getting into bed expecting to get something out of it only to be done two minutes later. If this is a pattern, you may just lose your wife’s interest.
It is commonly known that women take a little more stimulation to arrive at that point where they can leave everything else behind and actually be present during lovemaking. We don’t want to think about the chores or the upcoming family reunion, but if you don’t give us a reason to think otherwise, then guess where we’ll be when having sex?
Pay attention to a woman’s signs – and work her up to wanting you. Not that she doesn’t want you already, but sometimes all the other day to day activities are so present that she needs you to call her back to that place where you can have fun together. Give her a reason to be there. Take your time, do those things she likes (you know exactly what they are) even if it takes longer than anticipated. Put yourself second and focus only on her and she’ll be screaming in no time. Then she’ll have the inclination to get you to that wonderful place too.
Doing these things for your wife helps you both grow closer sexually, and if she is the shy type, it can work her out of her shell to try something new. We know that the sex has to be good, and we have our own fantasies too. But being able to express them to our mate may be a little harder for us to do. That is why it’s so important that you show your wife that you want her to be sexually satisfied, and are willing to do anything to help her find that place of total euphoria.
With you, she wants to feel like a sex goddess, like she is the only woman who can offer you this wonderful intimate feeling. If you can get her there, you are in for the sexual ride of your life!