Allow only one person to open presents at a time. This will alleviate the crinkle of wrapping paper and nose from the excited voices of siblings.
Keep meals quiet. Do not allow toys at the table. Ask each child to talk about their favorite toy, including the Asperger’s child.
Keep noise minimal. Do not play music for extended periods of time or it will become nothing but noise to the Asperger’s child.
Encourage the Asperger’s child to enjoy himself and have fun. If this means he retreat to a quiet area where he can be alone, let him be. This is his way of coping and of enjoying the holiday. Never pressure an Asperger’s child to play with other children.
Keep visitors minimal. Family members and friends should keep visits short and they should visit at separate times. Be sure everyone knows when they are expected and how long they are expected to stay.